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Throughout childhood, the child configures his personality from the experiences he goes through. In this evolution, positive and negative emotions guide the child towards adulthood and identity.
In this way the child can experience certain traumas or events that define his personality. We tell you which are the most common traumas in childhood and what type of behaviors it can cause.
Childhood is an intense stage of life and in which we are most vulnerable. It is a period in which children are learning and acquiring the skills and tools necessary for a future life.
This learning is based on establishing a strong bond between children and their caregivers who serve as guides and example; being the fundamental pillars so that through experiences, children develop safely and autonomously
When parents try to provide these tools and capacities to children, the role of emotions is fundamental.
When negative emotions occur in a very intense way, or most of those that occur are negative, it is likely that children experience situations called "early stress" that will make them lose their way in their development and maturity. It is with this loss of direction that traumas appear. We tell you which are the most common traumas in childhood due to these negative emotions and how the child can act in the future.
- Fear of rejection. When the child reaches approximately 2 years of age he already sees himself as a person independent from his parents. When this happens, the child begins to seek acceptance of the figures that are most important to him. If the emotion that appears in this action is negative, that is, the people in whom you seek security reject you, an emotional wound will be created that will cause a trauma that will generate low self-esteem. In the future you will have an ongoing fear of failure and the need for the approval of others in everything you do.
- Treachery. It's something that happens a lot. Many parents make promises that are not kept later and this is something that children see as betrayal and do not forgive. This action generates in the child the idea of not being able to trust anyone. When it happens regularly, the child learns to isolate himself and feel alone. In the future, these children will behave coldly and do not allow others to get close to them or share their privacy.
- Fear of abandonment. The absence of attachment figures in childhood creates a feeling of abandonment in the child that makes them insecure and dependent on others in the future. It is one of the major causes of depression in adults.
- The humiliation. It is closely related to rejection. This trauma appears when the child feels that they disapprove and criticize him. For example, by telling them that they are clumsy, they are bad, they are heavy or telling their problems to everyone. This destroys their self-esteem and causes the child to develop a dependent personality in the future, or on the contrary, it generates the child a behavior.
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